Thinking of helping your kids to buy a home? Three ways to do it

Abigail Van Buren once said, “If you want children to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shoulders.”

This holds true even once they’re grown. What better way to give responsibility to your adult children than by helping them to become homeowners?  Further, once your kids are old enough to go to university or first start working, they likely won’t have the funds to buy their own home, yet many of us feel that it is better to own the home we live in, rather than paying off someone else’s mortgage. So, how can this be accomplished? 

Here are three alternatives. Which is most appropriate for you depends on your financial situation and your lifestyle and retirement goals.

Option 1. Provide cash to your child as a gift, for a down payment on a home.

PROS: Your child can buy a home sooner, and start building up equity, rather than paying rent to someone else. If the amount of the gift is more than 20% of the value of the home they wish to buy, you enable them to obtain a conventional mortgage, avoiding mortgage default insurance fees.

CONS: You will have to provide a letter confirming that the funds are a gift, with no repayment required. The child is free to use the money as they choose.

Option 2. Co-sign on your child’s mortgage.

PROS: The mortgage will be obtained based on your financial circumstances. Your child may not have an established credit rating, high enough salary, or a proven track record of employment, to qualify for a mortgage. If your financial situation allows, you can co-sign or guarantee their mortgage. This may result in a better interest rate, larger mortgage amount, and a more ideal home for your child.

CONS: You will be responsible for paying the mortgage, if your child becomes unable to do so. As well, if you later need to borrow money yourself, the debt may impact your own ability to qualify for funds.

Option 3. Use your own cash, or equity you have available in your own home, to buy a home and have your child pay you rent.

PROS: If you feel your child is not yet ready to own their own home, for example, while going to university, becoming the landlord may make the most sense. Using money you have in the bank, or equity in your own paid-off home, you could invest in a rental property. If you do finance the purchase, your interest on the loan is tax-deductible since this is not your primary residence (and if you choose a home equity line of credit, all you have to pay is the interest).   Best of all, your child and their roommates will pay the rent to you, keeping the money in the family.

CONS: If you finance the purchase, the equity in your own home will be tied up and not available to you for your personal needs. The same holds true of you use your own funds. Also, if your child moves away, you might be stuck holding property in an area that was chosen only because your child was attending school there.

The key benefit in these scenarios: the help you have provided will keep money in the family, instead of paying someone else’s mortgage via rent payments.  Talk to your accountant or financial planner to review your options and ensure they are appropriate for your situation, and then enjoy helping to make your child a homeowner!

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